Free Your Heart, Reclaim Your Energy: The Power of Cord Cutting

Not every connection is meant to last forever. But sometimes, even after a relationship or situationship ends, it doesn’t feel over—not entirely. You’ve blocked the number, cleared out the texts, maybe even done the inner work… and yet, something lingers. Their energy. The bond. The emotional weight.

That’s energetic ties, bb.

Energetic Ties 101: What They Are and How They Work

Energetic ties—sometimes called cords—are unseen spiritual connections that form between us and the people we’ve shared emotional intensity with. This could be a romantic partner, a situationship, a deep friendship, or even someone who caused us pain. These bonds aren’t inherently negative; many are formed through love, intimacy, or care. But when a relationship shifts—or ends—and the energy remains active, those cords can become draining, confusing, and deeply disempowering.

Think of it like an open tab on your energetic browser. It may not be on your screen, but it’s still running in the background, pulling energy away from your present life.

Sometimes you’re corded to someone who’s no longer physically present. Other times, the tie is with a version of yourself who existed inside that relationship—still holding fear, shame, or hope for something unresolved. Either way, the result is the same: a subtle (or not-so-subtle) sense of being emotionally stuck, foggy, or pulled in a direction that doesn’t reflect where you actually want to go.

Why We Feel So Attached—Even When We Know Better

It’s easy to judge ourselves when we can’t “just move on.” But attachment isn’t just mental or emotional—it’s energetic. When we share intimacy, vulnerability, and even trauma with someone, our fields intertwine. This creates a psychic muscle memory, and even when the logical mind says “it’s time to let go,” your energy might not be on the same page.

Add in spiritual contracts, karmic entanglements, or repeated emotional loops, and it’s no wonder we stay connected far longer than we intend to.

There’s also the very human part of us that fears what comes after the letting go. Who am I if I’m no longer waiting for them to return? What does love look like without that familiar chaos? When we don’t have a ritual or a practice for closure, we often leave the door cracked—just in case.

But every time we revisit the past, consciously or not, we signal to the universe that we’re still entangled in that version of ourselves. And that keeps our energy out of alignment with the life we’re trying to create.

Because manifestation isn’t just about what you want. It’s about what you’re aligned with. It’s about who you are energetically when no one’s watching. The thoughts you feed. The beliefs you rehearse. The emotional signatures you carry in your body.

When you’re still carrying energetic ties to someone or something that isn’t aligned with your future, you’re not standing fully in your now. Your frequency is fragmented—part of you rooted in the present, part of you looped in an old storyline, hoping for a different ending.

That kind of energy sends mixed signals to the universe. You might say, “I’m ready for new love,” but if your heart space is still wrapped around the echo of someone who couldn’t meet you fully, your field says, “I’m still waiting on that past version of love to resolve itself.”

To align with a new frequency, you have to make room for it. And that means clearing out what no longer matches your vibration. The emotional clutter, the silent hope, the energetic residue that tethers you to who you used to be, or who you tried to become for someone else.

Why Cord Cutting Is a Power Move (Not a Punishment)

Cord cutting isn’t about erasing the past. It’s about choosing to stop leaking energy into something that’s no longer aligned. It’s a return to self. A reclamation of your sovereignty.

When we cut cords intentionally, we’re not “canceling” people. We’re honoring what was, releasing with compassion, and creating space for what wants to come through. We shift from emotional survival mode to energetic clarity. From confusion to embodiment. From passivity to power.

And here’s the real magic: when you clear those cords, your frequency shifts. You stop attracting from a place of unresolved wounding and start magnetizing from grounded wholeness. You create room for the relationships, opportunities, and experiences that actually match the you that’s here now—not the version of you stuck in someone else’s story.

Cord cutting isn’t dramatic. It’s maintenance. It’s boundaries in ritual form. It’s saying: “I choose me, here and now.”

This is the work of becoming who you’re meant to be—not in theory, but in practice. In energy. In choice.

And it starts by releasing the weight of what you’ve already outgrown.

Ready to Reclaim Your Power?

If you’re ready to reclaim your power, release the attachments that have been draining you, and step into alignment with who you actually are now… this is the work.

The Cord Cutting Workshop was created for exactly this purpose—and it’s become a best-seller for a reason.

This isn’t a one-time ritual. It’s a powerful tool you can return to again and again—whenever you feel the need to cut cords or old patterns creep back in. It’s supported tens of thousands of people in letting go, realigning, and finally feeling clear.

Inside the workshop, you’ll receive:
• A guided ceremony for cord cutting, with powerful techniques to release energetic attachments to past relationships
• Supportive tools to help you heal from emotional traumas and finally break free from patterns that no longer serve your growth
• A sacred and safe space to do this work, so you can return to yourself fully and call your power all the way back

It’s direct. It’s embodied. It’s deeply transformative. And it’s here for you when you’re ready.

So the question becomes: are you?